Anxiety and People-Pleasing

What are the signs and how can CBT help?

When You Carry More Than People Realize

Many New Yorkers carry responsibilities and expectations — from others and themselves — that aren’t always visible. You may appear steady and capable, yet privately feel overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck.


You may notice:

  • Constant worry or overthinking

  • Feeling responsible for others’ needs or emotions

  • Saying “yes” even when you’re already stretched thin

  • A critical inner voice that’s hard to quiet

  • Anxiety at work, in relationships, or during downtime

  • Feeling that your efforts aren’t “enough”

You’re not alone and change is possible

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How Middle Path Can Help You

At Middle Path, we offer CBT that’s practical, reflective, and tailored to your needs. Experienced and trusted by New Yorkers to navigate life’s pressures, we help you understand both the helpful and unhelpful patterns shaping your experiences, and build observable changes so you can move forward feeling clearer, steadier, and more self-assured.

  • Clarity & confidence – Understand patterns that drive people-pleasing, self-doubt, and self-criticism, and learn practical ways to feel more self-compassionate and self-assured.

  • Strengths & skills – Recognize your existing strengths and build on what’s already working for you.

  • Balanced, sustainable change – Make real, lasting shifts in work, relationships, and daily life in ways that feel grounded and manageable.

  • Healthier boundaries – Set limits effectively while staying aligned with your values and priorities.

  • Flexible schedulingMeet in-office in NoMad or online through a secure platform, with a complimentary 15-minute consultation.

No need to have it all figured out — change starts one step at a time

What change can look like

“You helped me stay true to who I am, and I now feel more grounded, clearer on what I want, and able to communicate it in ways that really work.”

— A. F. W.

“I feel less anxious and confused now, and more able to cope on my own.”

— Y. C.

“I’m much more aware of my feelings, needs, and goals as things are happening. I’ve noticed improvements and less stress in my relationship.”

— E. K. F.

Trusted by colleagues

Dr. Thompson is a compassionate, genuine, and effective provider of cognitive behavioral treatments. She was one of the most skilled clinicians at Bellevue Hospital. I strongly recommend her without hesitation.

— Dr. Galbraith

Dr. Thompson is an excellent, competent, compassionate clinician. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking evidence-based treatment for anxiety and relationship difficulties.

— Dr. Sears

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You don’t have to have it all figured out